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Establishing Healthy Boundaries, Emotional Completion, Diagnosing Addictions and Removing Lifestyle Stressors
Socio-emotional Needs In addition to the basic human needs for air, light, water, food, sleep, strength and mobility, we also have social and emotional needs. As social animals, we have a need for social acceptance and we like to relate, … Continue reading
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Integrity, Self-trust, Locus of Control and Being with the Weirdness
Principle: Integrity and Self-trust “Without integrity, nothing works.” ~ Erhard, Jensen & Zaffron, 2009 ~ According to Werner Erhard, an important aspect of integrity is keeping my word. Keeping my word means doing what I say I will. When I … Continue reading
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Smart & Systematic Implementation: Enter the Self-Change Project
Part IV: Principles & Daily Practices for Self-Change “Opinions are of very little value, it’s your commitments (what you do with your opinions) that count.” ~ Wayne Dyer ~ “Your real values and your true beliefs are communicated by your … Continue reading
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Setting High Standards & the Actual and Ideal Self
Accepting Responsibility “The starting point of maturity is the realization that no one is coming to the rescue. Everything you are or ever will be is entirely up to you.” ~ Brian Tracy ~ If I want to make a … Continue reading
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Internally and Externally based Self-schema’s
Internal or External Self-schema Concepts in the self-schema may refer to things internal or external to the self. Examples of things internal to the self are my values, my goals, my views and my preferences. Examples of concepts external to … Continue reading
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Self-Verification & Self-Enhancement
Self-Verification: the re-enforcing nature of beliefs With the concepts in our minds, we create beliefs about the world. More specifically, with the concepts in our self-schema, we form beliefs about ourselves. Like I stated earlier, concepts and schemas determine what … Continue reading
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