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Utilize Everything, Take Risk, Don’t Settle, Practice over Perfection & Words of Thanks

Posted on February 24, 2012 by edwards87

Principle: Utilize Everything & Take more Risk In changing behaviour, there will be an element of uncertainty and challenge involved in going outside of the ranges of how I normally act (my comfort zone/safe haven). This visceral feeling of tension … Continue reading →

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Investigating and Rewriting the Self-schema, Identifying my Values, Goal-Setting and Creating a Vision for the Future

Posted on February 22, 2012 by edwards87

Practice: Investigating and Rewriting the Self-schema In Part III, I suggested an action exercise on writing out what is currently in your Self-schema. Writing out the content of my Self-schema makes me aware of what kind of a person I … Continue reading →

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Establishing Healthy Boundaries, Emotional Completion, Diagnosing Addictions and Removing Lifestyle Stressors

Posted on February 20, 2012 by edwards87

Socio-emotional Needs In addition to the basic human needs for air, light, water, food, sleep, strength and mobility, we also have social and emotional needs. As social animals, we have a need for social acceptance and we like to relate, … Continue reading →

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Integrity, Self-trust, Locus of Control and Being with the Weirdness

Posted on February 15, 2012 by edwards87

Principle: Integrity and Self-trust “Without integrity, nothing works.” ~ Erhard, Jensen & Zaffron, 2009 ~ According to Werner Erhard, an important aspect of integrity is keeping my word. Keeping my word means doing what I say I will. When I … Continue reading →

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Smart & Systematic Implementation: Enter the Self-Change Project

Posted on February 13, 2012 by edwards87

Part IV: Principles & Daily Practices for Self-Change “Opinions are of very little value, it’s your commitments (what you do with your opinions) that count.” ~ Wayne Dyer ~ “Your real values and your true beliefs are communicated by your … Continue reading →

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Setting High Standards & the Actual and Ideal Self

Posted on February 6, 2012 by edwards87

Accepting Responsibility “The starting point of maturity is the realization that no one is coming to the rescue. Everything you are or ever will be is entirely up to you.” ~ Brian Tracy ~ If I want to make a … Continue reading →

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Selective Attention & the Self-schema

Posted on January 25, 2012 by edwards87

Selective attention (or attention bias) In reality, there are a lot of different things we could be paying attention to at any given time. Because we can never focus on everything that’s out there, a selection has to be made … Continue reading →

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Healthy Boundaries, Concepts & Cognitive Dissonance

Posted on January 23, 2012 by edwards87

Part III: The Dynamic Self-schema “The motivating force behind the forming of shared illusions in a group is identical to that in the self: to minimize anxiety.” ~ Daniel Goleman ~ Introduction In the first two parts, I covered two … Continue reading →

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Summary, Completion and the Capacity for Challenge

Posted on January 20, 2012 by edwards87

The incomplete needs company In a state of unprocessed past hurts, the wounded individual doesn’t feel whole. Like I wrote earlier: Deep down, the child knows that something just isn’t right. This intuitive feel is spot on as the child’s … Continue reading →

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Fear, the Autonomic Nervous System & the narrowing of our Range of Behaviour

Posted on January 18, 2012 by edwards87

Fear versus anxiety Aside from the negative impact of unprocessed hurt from abuse I already mentioned, there is another detrimental factor to uncompleted past pain that I want to write about. That is, the underlying sense of threat a person … Continue reading →

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